We Believe what we tell Ourselves

Hey guys whats up ?? how are you guys doing today i hope all is well and you guys had a good weekend and a blessed sunday !! firstly just wanna say thanks and give praises to God for enabling us to see another day and to gain never opportunites.
So today is local government .. "yea" well i hope al you guys who are voting followed your mind and the decision that you made will benefit you in the long run as well as your country anyway be safe and remember its always good to let your voice be heard after all remember those people who fought and died to get us the right so yea thumbs up to those of you exerised your right and those of you who didn't i guess you all have your reasons and i respect that.. to each their own !
anyway getting down to the matter as the topic says "we believe what we tell ourselves" yups this is true in my opinion as i think that the mind and the brain or better yet the heart as a dialectic type of relationship we need one to balance out the other this could as be refer to as a reprocity relationship as well.. so if we say we can and we keeping on telling ourselves that then not only will we believe but it will also come true if we dig deep and push ourselves and BELIEVE there is nothing in this world that can be impossible after all what the heart concieves the mind can achieve.

as so keep these few quotes in mind i think they hold great meaning !!

* Hold on to what’s important. Let your worries go. No matter how you look at it, some things just don’t make sense. The way you choose to carry on is what matters.
* Positive thinking isn’t about expecting the best to happen every time but, accepting that whatever happens is the best for this moment.

&& remember :
 Tell yourself:
Everything will work out.
Things will get better.
You are important.
... You are worthy of great things.
You are loveable.
The time is now.
This too, shall pass.
You can be who you really are.
The best is yet to come.
You are strong.
You can do this.
&& keep telling yourself this & you will believe trust me you will and this will then push you to achieve it.
so just always BELIEVE, be you no matter what because you may never know who out there is looking up to you and wanna be you as well as all the others who despises you for who you really are ... Love yourselves and accept your self because if you don't then no one else will as only you alone can determine your work so just keep your eyes on the prize and keep being you !!!

Later Lexxi @ Dem :)

Who Am I ?? Who Are You ?? --- Learn to love with all your heart and accept the unlovable side of others. For anyone can love a rose, but it takes a great heart to include the thorns !

Hey guys !! whats up ?? just wanna say hope u guys had a great day and stayed true to your selves this time around i'll just be talking about loving and accepting yourself and changing for no one or nothing because in a world like this people will hate you for being different and not living by society's standards, but deep down, they wish they had the courage to do the same ! i say why try to fit in when you where made to stand out !! god made you that way for a reason it was destined to be !!!! Love you !!- confidence with a little conceitedness is good in my eyes remember your unique there is no other like you.

 its your story its your life live it the way you please forever keeping yourself happy & comfortable !!


Remember You deserve a day where worries don’t get in the way of anything. A day where… even if some people are insensitive or unkind, you’re not going to mind because the blessings you received are far greater than the burdens you experience. Remember, stay positive!

a new song that i absolutely love and wanna share with you guys

enjoy your weekend Later Lexxi @ Dem :)

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy.

Hey guys whats up ? i wonder whats new has been happening well as i predicted i did have mad fun over the weekend can i tell u about it Awesome !!!! i hope u guys enjoyed yours.
so the topic as usual is life but what aspect are we approaching it from this time round ? well as the topic suggest letting go of the past and respecting one's self enough to be happy.

its as simple as this message:
“Once you realize that your past is just a story…it no longer has any power over you. SoWhen people hurt you over and over, think of them as sandpaper. They scratch and hurt you. But later, you’ll be shining and polished, while they end up useless or better yet worn out.
look at it as a thing where they are just getting you ready for life as well as helping you to eliminate the useless and unwanted things in your life so as to reach your destiny and to attain the plan has for you because remember everything happens for a reason so never say what if or if i knew never regret anything.. and never feel sorry that you met the person or persons that has done you wrong in life they are just test towards your faith and strength they are helping you, you may not see it now but in due time you will and when you do you will smile trust me as they are people who come in your life to stay those people leave a mark in you heart but there are also people who come in your life who are suppose to leave they are there to teach you a lesson and to open you eyes to issues that surrounds you as well as to show you paths your not suppose to go down or enter. so use them as learning tools and forgive them but never put them at the forefront of your life because nothing is worth your happiness!
THEY WAY TO HAPPINESS:
Keep your heart free from HATE, your mind from WORRY, live SIMPLY, expect LITTLE, give MUCH. scatter SUNSHINE,think of YOURSELF and OTHERS !!!
So Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. As so i leave you with this quote & picture.
Life does not consist mainly, or even largely, of facts and happenings. It consists mainly of the storm of thoughts that are forever blowing through one's mind. -Mark Twain

Later Guys Lexxi @ Dem :)

The Awesomeness of Believing !!!!

Hey guys im here again :) so here we go .. what's on the agenda today well first off let me start by saying i'm having a wonderful day thank you lord i hope ur enjoying yours as well did my test which was good in my opinion we will see when the results come out but im very confident in my self. plus i did my best.

So believing and having faith two of the best frenz a person can have in their life trust me i know this from experience others might call it conceited i call it knowing ones worth because if you don't believe in your self who will ?? remember - "I can do [[ALL]] things through CHRIST who strengthens me . . ." as so don't doubt yourself, Don't live by example :: Live by experience.. i keep on saying YOLO because it is true we only have one life to live and we should live it to its fullest do let fear prevent you from having an awesome moment always believe the only person that matters already believes in you #God 

Saw this and had to share it as i think it sums up all i wanted to say 

 you can dream all you want to but if you don't believe in your dreams then you're just thinking. Not that anything is wrong with thinking but, IT'S JUST THINKING. Belief is a by-product of your Faith. You can not have Faith if you don't believe. A beliefs in something will cause you not to give up on something or someone when it does something out of character. Like a business venture, or marriage, or your kids, or your dreams! Belief will cause you to see things through to the end. We all need to believe in something. You will not get much done without the belief in life to back you up. Belief pushes you pass you physical strength and causes you to do the IMPOSSIBLE. GOD wanted me to fail and not get up, it would have happened by now. The Awesomeness to believe again is inside all of us!
- Kevin Micale Anderson 

 hope this little thought a made a difference for some one today !!! :)

So lets talk about me which is expected as always lol ......ohh can i tell u i am so awaiting the weekend should be fun-filled that's why im making sure i get all the work done and properly to by then gonna have major fun with the gang :).... make sure you guys do the same & never stop having faith and believing because even when a million people is out there telling you can't that one voice, God's voice is telling you yes and with that you need nothing else so enjoy the rest of your day have a productive week and if i don't get to hit you back by weekend have a rocking one.. be careful & Take care Later Lexxi @ Dem :)

 

so make sure to
 i plan to :) ps -->do remember to take care of those responsibilities tho :)

Life

 Life is so unpredictable i guess that is why they say expect the unexpected.Sometimes what we care about the most gets all used up or goes away, never to return. sometimes we never get a chance to say goodbye or i love you. life is so precious and yet so short. remember i gave you guys the task of evaluating the people around you choosing the keepers well by now i think the process should have brought about some results so my other task to you now is to let those people you chose know that they are important to you let them know they are keepers suppose one morning you never wake up. does all your family and frenz know you love them ?? let everyone know how you feel, even if you think they don't feel the same. it is amazing what three little words and a smile can do. its never bad to share a little love or a little joy !!!
As shown by God time and time again even in this life of many challenges he never leaves your side - remember God didn't promise days without pain laughter without sorrow sun without rain but he did promise strength for the day comfort for the tears and light for the way. even living person he wishes to bless so you should do the same even your enemies (Psalm 103). So remember to live love and laugh because you only have one life to live here today gone tomorrow don't wait for the moment to happen make it happen #YOLO !!... Have a blessed day and a productive week guys !! Later Lexxii @ Dem !! :)

 hey guys continuing on the motivating and inspirational role tell yourselves I am here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand. Henceforth will I apply ALL my efforts to become the highest mountain of all and I will strain my potential until it cries for mercy... so Don't chase people. Be you and do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay.

Later Lexxii @ Dem

"Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along."

just an inspirational thought my lecturer sent to us his students and i really liked it and think it might help or motivate someone in some way or the other !!! so i just had to share !! 

its saying live & love life never give up :)

Big Up Gerry dha 1 yah a go hard !!! *smile*

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. 

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. 

We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' 

Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. 

Your playing small does not serve the world. 

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. 

We are all meant to shine, as children do. 

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. 

It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. 

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. 

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” 

― Marianne Williamson, Return to Love